Welcome to NuRVers, Dan!
I totally agree with your post title. And, I will add that the best gift we can give ourselves is to do what we wish to do! That makes the world around us happy. If you aren't happy, it is hard to pass the happy along to our loved ones.
I also do WebDev, and have been doing it from the road for almost 8 years now. Best thing I have ever done! I get to spend more time with family and friends, and doing what makes me happy. Good times!
Good luck on getting started!
--kev